I’m A Celeb’s Tulisa comes out as demisexual and reveals she’s been celibate for over THREE years – after trauma of her leaked sex tape ‘impacted her relationships to this day’

Tulisa revealed she’s been celibate for over three years as she came out as demisexual during Tuesday night’s episode of I’m A Celebrity.

The N-Dubz star, 36, admitted that the thought of being with someone makes her feel ‘physically sick’ as she discussed her love life with her campmates.

In the peak of her fame, Tulisa endured a very high-profile court case after her ex boyfriend Justin Edwards who she had broken up with in 2009 – released a sex tape of her in 2012.

She previously told how she felt ‘judged, disgusting and ashamed’ because of the ordeal and said it has taken her ‘many years’ to come to terms with and get over.

Tulisa shared with her campmates that she has no interest in dating anyone, admitting ‘I’m proper guarded’.

As the talk in camp turned to relationships, Dean McCullough said: ‘I actually do enjoy being single, I enjoy being on my own.’

The N-Dubz star admitted that the thought of being with someone makes her feel ‘physically sick’ as she discussed her love life with her campmates

As Alan Halsall admitted he’d ‘never been on dating apps before’, Dean turned to Tulisa and joked: ‘We’ve done them all, haven’t we babes.’

Tulisa said: ‘No I’ve only done Raya [celebrity dating app]. I’m not really a dater, even though I’ve been on there, I’ve never gone on an actual date with anyone on there… I’m proper guarded.’

She added: ‘I feel like I’m demisexual, I need to have a really close emotional bond with someone.’

Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where a person only experiences sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional connection with someone. 

Dean said: ‘You need meaning babe.’

‘I need actual depth. I’m a slow, slow burner, I’ve been celibate for over three years’, Tulisa revealed.

‘I’m not an overly sexualised person. For me, it’s all about the connection and the emotions that I feel with someone and then wanting to express them in that way.’

Explaining the thought of sleeping with someone or going out and meeting someone ‘genuinely makes me feel physically sick’, she joked: ‘This is my temple, you cannot enter!’

Alan quipped: ‘It sounds like a Bushtucker Trial where you’ve gotta find a key to Tulisa’s temple!’

In the peak of her fame, Tulisa endured a very high-profile court case after her ex boyfriend Justin Edwards who she had broken up with in 2009 – released a sex tape of her in 2012 

She previously told how she felt ‘judged, disgusting and ashamed’ because of the ordeal and said it has taken her ‘many years’ to come to terms with and get over 

As the talk in camp turned to relationships, Dean McCullough said: ‘I actually do enjoy being single, I enjoy being on my own’

As Alan Halsall admitted he’d ‘never been on dating apps before’, Dean turned to Tulisa and joked: ‘ We’ve done them all, haven’t we babes’

She said: ‘I feel like I’m demisexual, I need to have a really close emotional bond with someone. I need actual depth. I’m a slow, slow burner, I’ve been celibate for over three years’

Speaking to Olivia Attwood on her So Wrong It’s Right podcast, Tulisa discussed how much of a toll the leaked sex tape has had on her life.

She said: ‘It felt like virtual rape, that’s the only way I can describe the emotion. It was just horrific. I felt so just judged and I felt disgusting, I felt ashamed.

‘It just felt horrible, there’s no word to describe. It’s taken me many, many years to come to terms with it. Now, for me, all pain is growth.

‘So, every single part of my experiences I was meant to feel and I wouldn’t be the person I am today without them.

‘So there is no regret on anything, that is my path. I was meant to live it and I have.’

She added: ‘It’s affected my relationships to this day and intimacy and all those kinds of things – it’s life changing in a big, big way.’

Revenge porn was not illegal at the time, meaning she only managed to get a court apology from him.

Justin released it between her first and second series as a panel judge on the X Factor.

Tulisa said she’d been told her ex-boyfriend got given a house after releasing the tape.

On whether there were any repercussion for him, she continued: ‘No.

‘I mean, I sued him down the line, but I think he just got to the point where he’s like, I’m not spending this money.

‘Because at the time I had money to spend, so I was like, I’m just going to keep suing your a**e. And then eventually he just wrote an apology.’

She said Justin had been denying he’d released it and tried to claim she had been complicit in the making of the tape.

‘He tried to say that either it was me or I was involved – something crazy like that.’ she said.

‘So he just basically admitted it was him, that was it. But there were no repercussions.’

At the time of her high court win in 2012, revenge porn was not a criminal offence.

Revenge porn was not illegal at the time, meaning she only managed to get a court apology from him 

Justin released it between her first and second series as a panel judge on the X Factor 

In a similar case, Stephen Bear was jailed for 21 months last March after sharing a sex tape without the consent of his ex-partner, Georgia Harrison.

However, the revenge porn law only came into force in 2014, meaning it was too late for Justin to be prosecuted for it.

On the unlawfulness of sharing explicit images, Tulisa said: ‘It is now. It just wasn’t then, it’s mental.’

Tulisa settled her legal action against Justin in 2012 after he admitted he was responsible for releasing the sex tape that appeared online and agreed to say sorry.

The star told waiting photographers she was thrilled that ‘the truth had come out’ over the publication of the intimate footage.

And, in her statement, she added: ‘This time, Justin messed with the wrong woman’.

She added: ‘I am relieved that this is finally over. It has been a very testing few months and this was not a case I ever wanted to go through.

‘Justin Edwards’s actions were to spite me, make money and ruin my career. He has succeeded in none of these things.

‘I stand here today a stronger, wiser young woman who has taken this experience and learnt from it.’

She continued: ‘I am disgusted by Justin and saddened by the people that believed I released the footage myself. Today the truth has prevailed. After months of lying to the public and lying in court, Justin has finally admitted to being guilty and I hope justice is served.’

To find out more tune into I’m A Celebrity…Get Me Out Of Here! Tuesday at 9pm on ITV1, STV and ITVX 

I’M A CELEBRITY 2024: MEET THE ALL STAR LINE UP

OTI MABUSE  

Oti Mabuse has already two Strictly glitterballs under her belt

AGE: 34

OCCUPATION: Professional dancer

FAMOUS FOR: Oti is best known for being a professional dancer on the British television series Strictly Come Dancing, which she won in 2019 and 2020. 

DANNY JONES 

Danny Jones is one of the bookies’ favourites to win this year’s I’m A Celeb

AGE: 38

OCCUPATION: McFly singer

FAMOUS FOR:  Danny is one of the lead vocalists and the lead guitarist for pop-rock band McFly. 

He is also a coach on The Voice UK. 

BARRY MCGUIGAN 

Former boxer Barry McGuigan is heading into the jungle

AGE: 63

OCCUPATION: Retired professional boxer

FAMOUS FOR:  Barry was nicknamed The Clones Cyclone and held the WBA and lineal featherweight titles from 1985 to 1986. 

GK BARRY

GK Barry is a TikTok star who recently joined the ITV family on Loose Women

AGE: 25

OCCUPATION: TikTok star 

FAMOUS FOR: Grace is known for her comedic commentary on culture, lifestyle, and fashion. She has over 3.6 million followers and recently joined the Loose Women panel. 

DEAN MCCULLOUGH 

ITV bosses are hoping Dean McCullough will ruffle feathers in the camp

AGE: 32

OCCUPATION:  Radio 1 DJ 

FAMOUS FOR:  Radio 1 DJ Dean has been signed by I’m A Celeb bosses, in the hope that he will ruffle feathers with his outspoken views. 

Earlier this year it was announced Dean would be taking over the BBC Radio 1 Early Breakfast Show, after previously fronting the afternoon slot.  

JANE MOORE  

Jane is best known as a panellist and anchor of Loose Women

AGE: 62

OCCUPATION: Journalist

 FAMOUS FOR:  Jane is best known as a panellist and anchor of Loose Women between 1999 and 2002. 

She returned as a regular panellist from 2013 onwards.

Jane takes on the challenge following her high-profile split from husband of 20 years, Showbiz agent, Gary Farrow. 

MELVIN ODOOM  

Melvin was previously courted by I’m A Celeb bosses back in 2021

AGE: 44

OCCUPATION: DJ and TV presenter

FAMOUS FOR: His work on radio. Melvin was previously courted by I’m A Celeb bosses back in 2021, but turned down the offer at the last minute.

He also had a primetime stint on Strictly back in 2016.

COLEEN ROONEY 

Reports claim that she has been offered the biggest deal in the show’s history

AGE: 38

OCCUPATION: WAG

FAMOUS FOR: Wagatha Christie case against arch rival Rebekah Vardy.

Reports claim that she has been offered the biggest deal in the show’s history, exceeding Nigel Farage’s £1.5million from last year.

ALAN HALSALL  

Alan Halsall is best known for his role as Tyrone Dobbs on Coronation Street

AGE: 42

OCCUPATION: Actor 

FAMOUS FOR: Coronation Street actor Alan Halsall was forced to withdraw from I’m A Celeb last year, after undergoing ACL Reconstruction surgery.

Bosses have now convinced the actor to sign up again, and no doubt he will draw in a huge fanbase thanks to his long-running role as Tyrone Dobbs on the soap. 

TULISA  

Tulisa is making her career comeback after reuniting with N-Dubz last year

AGE: 36

OCCUPATION: Singer and former X Factor judge 

FAMOUS FOR: Tulisa reunited with N-Dubz last year for a tour after first finding fame with the band in 2007.

In 2011, she became a judge on The X Factor and went on to launch her debut solo album, The Female Boss. 

She released her fourth album with N-Dubz last year.