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Amy Dowden demands action after cruel trolls branded her a ‘narcissist and attention seeker’ amid gruelling breast cancer battle

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Amy Dowden has opened up about the cruel trolling she faced during her treatment for breast cancer

The Strictly dancer’s world came crashing down when she was diagnosed with cancer the day after she came home from her honeymoon with husband Ben Jones in 2023. 

In what became the toughest year of her life, Amy, 34, underwent a mastectomy, chemotherapy, fertility treatment and also almost died of sepsis. 

And now the star is calling on action to clamp down on online trolls who accused her of being ‘a narcissist and attention seeker’ during the tough time. 

Speaking in her upcoming BBC documentary in clips obtained by The Mirror, Amy confessed: ‘Sometimes I was up at 2am and I couldn’t sleep because the ­steroids were keeping me up. I was so low and then receiving those messages was heartbreaking. I just feel like it’s not spoken about.’

Amy Dowden has demanded action after cruel trolls branded her a ‘narcissist and attention seeker’ amid her gruelling breast cancer battle this past year

In what became the toughest year of her life, Amy, 34, underwent a mastectomy , chemotherapy, fertility treatment and also almost died of sepsis

In what became the toughest year of her life, Amy, 34, underwent a mastectomy , chemotherapy, fertility treatment and also almost died of sepsis

Amy is demanding for the most extreme trolls to face criminal convictions as she revealed she understood how teenagers take their own lives due to online bullying. 

She added: ‘When someone is bullying someone online and they take their own life, it’s kind of like manslaughter. Is there going to be punishment to stop people doing it? It’s awful.’

‘They said I was a narcissist and an attention seeker. It was: “It’s not even stage 4.” They said I should hide away and get on with it on my own and asked why I felt the need to dance around in my garden when I shaved my head.’

After shaving her head, and inspiring others after she appeared on Strictly without a wig, Amy admitted she also received mean and nasty comments. 

And while she was supported by her parents, husband Ben and her Strictly family, the star also admitted even some of her friends who attended her wedding lost contact after her diagnosis, which was just months after her and her husband tied the knot. 

Amy’s upcoming BBC documentary airs on Monday August 26 and sees the cameras follow Amy through her incredibly difficult year. 

The dancer is currently preparing for the upcoming series of Strictly after she was forced to take a break from the show last year. 

Amy has confessed that the thought of losing her job on the BBC dance show was her greatest fear. 

'They said I was a narcissist and an attention seeker. It was: "It¿s not even stage 4." They said I should hide away and get on with it on my own and asked why I felt the need to dance around in my garden when I shaved my head'

‘They said I was a narcissist and an attention seeker. It was: “It’s not even stage 4.” They said I should hide away and get on with it on my own and asked why I felt the need to dance around in my garden when I shaved my head’ 

Amy has confessed that the thought of losing her job on the BBC dance show was her greatest fear: 'I was gutted. It completely wiped me out for Strictly. I was heartbroken because I wanted to be on the dance floor'

Amy has confessed that the thought of losing her job on the BBC dance show was her greatest fear: ‘I was gutted. It completely wiped me out for Strictly. I was heartbroken because I wanted to be on the dance floor’

The Strictly dancer's world came crashing down when she was diagnosed with cancer the day after she came home from her honeymoon with husband Ben Jones in 2023 (pictured together)

The Strictly dancer’s world came crashing down when she was diagnosed with cancer the day after she came home from her honeymoon with husband Ben Jones in 2023 (pictured together)

In clips obtained by The Sun Amy revealed: ‘When I had to tell Strictly, I was asking “Can I keep my job?” because that was the scariest thing.

‘To dance at the highest level, you have to be as fit as an athlete. I was scared about how treatment would affect my body.’

Discussing how her treatment wiped her out she added: ‘I was gutted. It completely wiped me out for Strictly. I was heartbroken because I wanted to be on the dance floor.’

Amy previously said of the documentary: ‘A year ago I was recently married and about to go on honeymoon, it was an exciting new chapter in my life, but finding a lump on my breast changed my life. 

‘I never thought at my age I would get cancer and, despite having family members and friends who were cancer survivors, had no idea just what the impact on my life would be. 

‘I’ve learnt so much about myself and what a cancer diagnosis means on this journey. I hope others find hope and strength from this film, and that it encourages everyone to check themselves, no matter what age you are.’

After the news of her return was revealed earlier this month, Amy took to Instagram to share her delight at being back to doing what she loves. The news came just two days after she marked the one year anniversary of her first surgery following her diagnosis

After the news of her return was revealed earlier this month, Amy took to Instagram to share her delight at being back to doing what she loves. The news came just two days after she marked the one year anniversary of her first surgery following her diagnosis 

After the news of her return was revealed earlier this month, Amy took to Instagram to share her delight at being back to doing what she loves. The news came just two days after she marked the one year anniversary of her first surgery following her diagnosis.

‘I’m so happy and grateful to be back on @bbcstrictly MY HEART IS SO HAPPY,’ she said. ‘The best team on and off the dance floor.’

She added: ‘I can’t wait to be back doing what I love most in the world, dancing! Feel blessed and more excited than EVER. Bring it on! Thank you @bbcstrcitly for your support always. Eeeeeekkk #amysback.’

The dancer’s fellow professionals were quick to share their delight at the news of her return.

‘❤️ So happy to have you wear you belong ❤️,’ wrote Dianne Buswell, while Graziano Di Prima said : ‘yeeesss❤️.’

Breast cancer is one of the most common cancers in the world and affects more than two MILLION women a year

Breast cancer is one of the most common cancers in the world. Each year in the UK there are more than 55,000 new cases, and the disease claims the lives of 11,500 women. In the US, it strikes 266,000 each year and kills 40,000. But what causes it and how can it be treated?

What is breast cancer?

It comes from a cancerous cell which develops in the lining of a duct or lobule in one of the breasts.

When the breast cancer has spread into surrounding tissue it is called ‘invasive’. Some people are diagnosed with ‘carcinoma in situ’, where no cancer cells have grown beyond the duct or lobule.

Most cases develop in those over the age of 50 but younger women are sometimes affected. Breast cancer can develop in men, though this is rare.

Staging indicates how big the cancer is and whether it has spread. Stage 1 is the earliest stage and stage 4 means the cancer has spread to another part of the body.

The cancerous cells are graded from low, which means a slow growth, to high, which is fast-growing. High-grade cancers are more likely to come back after they have first been treated.

What causes breast cancer?

A cancerous tumour starts from one abnormal cell. The exact reason why a cell becomes cancerous is unclear. It is thought that something damages or alters certain genes in the cell. This makes the cell abnormal and multiply ‘out of control’.

Although breast cancer can develop for no apparent reason, there are some risk factors that can increase the chance, such as genetics.

What are the symptoms of breast cancer?

The usual first symptom is a painless lump in the breast, although most are not cancerous and are fluid filled cysts, which are benign. 

The first place that breast cancer usually spreads to is the lymph nodes in the armpit. If this occurs you will develop a swelling or lump in an armpit.

How is breast cancer diagnosed?

  • Initial assessment: A doctor examines the breasts and armpits. They may do tests such as a mammography, a special x-ray of the breast tissue which can indicate the possibility of tumours.
  • Biopsy: A biopsy is when a small sample of tissue is removed from a part of the body. The sample is then examined under a microscope to look for abnormal cells. The sample can confirm or rule out cancer.

If you are confirmed to have breast cancer, further tests may be needed to assess if it has spread. For example, blood tests, an ultrasound scan of the liver or a chest X-ray.

How is breast cancer treated?

Treatment options which may be considered include surgery, chemotherapy, radiotherapy and hormone treatment. Often a combination of two or more of these treatments are used.

  • Surgery: Breast-conserving surgery or the removal of the affected breast depending on the size of the tumour.
  • Radiotherapy: A treatment which uses high energy beams of radiation focused on cancerous tissue. This kills cancer cells, or stops them from multiplying. It is mainly used in addition to surgery.
  • Chemotherapy: A treatment of cancer by using anti-cancer drugs which kill cancer cells, or stop them from multiplying.
  • Hormone treatments: Some types of breast cancer are affected by the ‘female’ hormone oestrogen, which can stimulate the cancer cells to divide and multiply. Treatments which reduce the level of these hormones, or prevent them from working, are commonly used in people with breast cancer.

How successful is treatment?

The outlook is best in those who are diagnosed when the cancer is still small, and has not spread. Surgical removal of a tumour in an early stage may then give a good chance of cure.

The routine mammography offered to women between the ages of 50 and 71 means more breast cancers are being diagnosed and treated at an early stage.

For more information visit breastcancernow.org or call its free helpline on 0808 800 6000

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