“You look 45,” one user remarked bluntly.
Summer Vennewitz (Photo: NYP)
Fitness influencer Summer Vennewitz, aged 25, has faced a wave of online bullying due to derogatory comments labelling her appearance as “super old.” Known for her transparent approach to self-image, Vennewitz has bravely opted not to conceal her insecurities with filters, instead striving to promote authentic representations of facial ageing, according to a report by the New York Post.
In a recent viral video, viewed nearly 8 million times, Vennewitz proudly proclaimed, “I’m a female who has never gotten Botox, filler, or lip injections.” However, the response in the comments section was predominantly critical, with many users remarking on her perceived age and expressing concerns about developing similar wrinkles.
“You look 45,” one user remarked bluntly. Another comment read, “If I were you, I’d cry. Please start using retinol and SPF.” Such comments continued, comparing her appearance unfavorably to others of similar age.
Despite the backlash, Vennewitz found support from her followers, who commended her authenticity and denounced the derogatory comments. “This girl is trying to show that you don’t have to be ashamed of aging,” one supporter wrote. Another commented, “People projecting their own insecurities onto her.”
Psychologist Carly Dober offered insight into the societal factors influencing these reactions, attributing them in part to the prevalence of anti-aging procedures like Botox and the widespread use of filters on social media. “The beauty industry’s emphasis on erasing wrinkles has distorted perceptions of natural aging,” she explained to News.com.au.
Dober emphasised the importance of normalising ageing and challenging beauty norms that promote unrealistic standards. “Ageing is a natural process that should be celebrated, not stigmatised,” she noted. She also highlighted how social media filters contribute to unrealistic beauty expectations and encouraged a more diverse portrayal of ageing.
“In showcasing diverse ageing signs, individuals challenge the narrow representations of ageing seen in media,” Dober concluded, advocating for a shift towards embracing natural beauty and promoting acceptance of the ageing process.